[127巷5號] 孤獨與寂寞

咖啡館老闆問我，寂寞和孤獨的區別在哪裡。

我：小學六年級的班主任也問過同樣的問題，她的解讀是，不要做孤獨的人，但要學會享受寂寞。然而在我看來，寂寞只是缺乏陪伴，或感到無聊；孤獨卻無處不在，種類繁多──曲高和寡也是一種孤獨。即使在「不寂寞」的場面，人也可能感到異常孤獨。

老闆：簡單來說，寂寞是孤獨的外在，孤獨是寂寞的本體。嗯，人的本質皆為孤獨。

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